Quote: (10-07-2016 09:13 AM)The Stronger Sex Wrote:
The reasoning is faulty. It's not about making sure she badmouths you. It's about not giving a fuck what she says about you. If you're depending on what she says about you for validation you're giving her power and forcing yourself to play a character.
+1 for more exactly seeing what's needed.
Roost's great dictum: "Be the flake" is pragmatically true, but TSS pins down the underlying mechanics.
Women have no choice -- their genetics basically DEMAND that they shit test you...
I've seen it AGAIN and again....
and what they need to see is that:
You are strong enough to leave them and get another woman.
She is testing to see if you are still worthy of her fast-expiring eggs.