[Stitch]

Eh, I'm old-fashioned. There's a difference between being a gentleman with class and a craven beta. Things like holding a door for a woman can be done in a sort of sniveling trying-to-please way, or they can be done in a firm, alpha, almost impersonal way that seems to get a much better response.

I'm certainly not against basic "chivalrous" behaviour if it's done for your own reasons and not "to please".