[Raccoonpaw]

Haha, that sounds like a good idea gypsy. She just wanted to feel secure and not be the girlfriend. As if getting engage would have provided a meaning towards her life. I feel like it's more a conflict of values. She was raised on the notion that if people aren't engage/married then it's nothing. I can say let's be together and thinking everything will be fine but if I get "You can't just tell me you love me. You have to show it. You have to fight for it. I fought for You. Im tired. It's getting no where. You don't want to show me what I'm worth because to you people ain't shit" then it's a lost cause. For hispanic people it's either get married or it's done lol, especially 34 year old dominicans.