Had a similar experience, was with my first gf for 8 years, we moved around locations and she met a new crowd of 'friends'. They were upper class, from rich backgrounds, posh accents. Within a year or two she had totally transformed, she had sponged all of their ideas, she actually changed the way she talked and started effecting a posh accent. She started rejecting the lifestyle that had suited us before, she started wanting to go out to clubs with her friends all the time, getting trashed, acting like a single chick.
It was a hard time but fortunately we ended the relationship amicably (it was her call eventually), which made separating properties, cars, furniture and shit a lot easier. So I would seriously recommend that you end it in the most amicable way you can, face to face, talk it through.
It was a hard time but fortunately we ended the relationship amicably (it was her call eventually), which made separating properties, cars, furniture and shit a lot easier. So I would seriously recommend that you end it in the most amicable way you can, face to face, talk it through.