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The "What should I text next?" thread (for when you get stuck) - -g- - 03-26-2015

I'd change the subject ^^^

Girl: Haha. G, you have to know I'm the kinda girl that loves to wear polka dots...

I'm trying to think of something witty or sexual as a response. Ideas?

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The "What should I text next?" thread (for when you get stuck) - Aragorn - 03-26-2015

send a polka dot lingerie pic

like this http://www.eastclothes.com/photos/01/EC2...1928-1.jpg

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The "What should I text next?" thread (for when you get stuck) - Feo - 03-26-2015

"prove it..undie pix"

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The "What should I text next?" thread (for when you get stuck) - UberBicep - 03-27-2015

Been banging this chick for a few weeks. Banged her last night. Text her:

Going out for drinks with a few friends later. You can join if you want. Probably going to xxxx place.

No response.

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The "What should I text next?" thread (for when you get stuck) - -g- - 03-27-2015

2 options:

1) don't say anything back for a week or so, let her come to you
2) say "lol ok..."

Since you have banged her, I'd probably go with option 1.

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The "What should I text next?" thread (for when you get stuck) - Mofasa - 03-27-2015

Just got this chicks number from tinder. real nice 7.5-8. she was super friendly over tinder now that we're texting I'm asking her about herself and she isn't replying with any interest in hearing about me.

ME: "you grow up around here"

Her: yeah in xxx and then xxx

Me: a xxx girl cool so are you a student?

Her: "well i was born in xxx haha but no im not, used to be tho"

I wanna just be like well Im glad you're so interested in learning about me...wtf do i do??

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The "What should I text next?" thread (for when you get stuck) - Feo - 03-27-2015

Quote: (03-27-2015 01:08 AM)UberBicep Wrote:  

Been banging this chick for a few weeks. Banged her last night. Text her:

Going out for drinks with a few friends later. You can join if you want. Probably going to xxxx place.

No response.

You just banged her last night..why are you going to hang out with her again? Just back off and let her chase the D

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The "What should I text next?" thread (for when you get stuck) - Icanconfirm - 04-02-2015

I think i might have fucked up guys
my parents are not home and i told this girl if she wanted to come over and watch a movie at my place ... we ended up texting a bit back and forth and then .... SILENCE
she didnt text me for like a week despite me sending a couple of texts almost daily
she then replies with ... "I don't know what you expect of me"
fucking female logic, she was calling me hot when we first started texting
i reply " Just making sure if you are okay. Anyways, see you later. I'll hide all the chairs in my house and burn the couch"
her: lol why would you burn your couch? Did i hurt your feelings?
me: No i just wanna a make sure that when you come here you'd have no where to sit except on my face"
her: EXCUSE ME!!!
WTF do i do now?
should i tell her it's just a joke?

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The "What should I text next?" thread (for when you get stuck) - eradicator - 04-02-2015

^ OK, first off, you don't want to get sexual with your texts until after you actually get the bang.

In your case, I would just suggest you start talking to other girls and getting other dates and try a restart in a week. If she doesn't respond, then forget her. From what you described, you are sending 2 to 3 texts per day and she isn't sending any?

Here is what you can learn and apply to future girls: keep the texts about logistics, where you are meeting and when etc

If she doesn't respond, you can stop sending her texts.

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The "What should I text next?" thread (for when you get stuck) - eradicator - 04-02-2015

Quote: (03-27-2015 10:15 PM)Mofasa Wrote:  

Just got this chicks number from tinder. real nice 7.5-8. she was super friendly over tinder now that we're texting I'm asking her about herself and she isn't replying with any interest in hearing about me.

ME: "you grow up around here"

Her: yeah in xxx and then xxx

Me: a xxx girl cool so are you a student?

Her: "well i was born in xxx haha but no im not, used to be tho"

I wanna just be like well Im glad you're so interested in learning about me...wtf do i do??

You go for the meet up. Since she is from tinder, try to get her come straight to your apartment. She may very well have been dtf that night and you are asking her about where she grew up.

That said, I have exchanged numbers with girls on tinder who seemed super friendly and down to meet up and then don't respond to when I text them on the phone. Likely just attention whoring or maybe just scared to actually follow through.

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The "What should I text next?" thread (for when you get stuck) - Icanconfirm - 04-02-2015

Quote: (04-02-2015 03:24 AM)eradicator Wrote:  

^ OK, first off, you don't want to get sexual with your texts until after you actually get the bang.

In your case, I would just suggest you start talking to other girls and getting other dates and try a restart in a week. If she doesn't respond, then forget her. From what you described, you are sending 2 to 3 texts per day and she isn't sending any?

Here is what you can learn and apply to future girls: keep the texts about logistics, where you are meeting and when etc

If she doesn't respond, you can stop sending her texts.

Thanks man! It does sound like sound advice. But i have found that texting back and forth a little bit before a date lets you know stuff about each other which makes it easier to talk about shit when you do actually meet up. Should i forego that advantage in favor of not seeming too desperate( in a way)

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The "What should I text next?" thread (for when you get stuck) - Carlos100 - 04-02-2015

My date from yesterday, described here texted me this morning, asking, "UR looking for a fuck buddy aren't you?"

I'm not sure how to respond, except perhaps to ignore it and wait to see if she texts again and proceed onward as if she never asked it.

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The "What should I text next?" thread (for when you get stuck) - Soaked - 04-02-2015

I think "fuck buddy" question is a concern that you're just interested in sex and not in the things that go along with it like going out and having a good time.

I'd say to ignore it and restart later in the week with some sort of outing invitation.

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The "What should I text next?" thread (for when you get stuck) - CodyB - 04-03-2015

Quote: (04-02-2015 10:59 PM)Carlos100 Wrote:  

My date from yesterday, described here texted me this morning, asking, "UR looking for a fuck buddy aren't you?"

I'm not sure how to respond, except perhaps to ignore it and wait to see if she texts again and proceed onward as if she never asked it.

Reading your date post, she is very, very into you. She was feeding you with her hands, showing you early kino and gave you a gift.

In Eastern Culture, these are all signs of heavy courtship. She is in love with you already.

After you went in the kiss and she recoiled, it could be a number of things. Japanese are not fans of

A)Japanese aren't huge fans of PDAS
B) She was attaching large amounts of significance to this meeting
C) You surprised the shit out of her and set her hampster into overdrive

Fact is she is in her 30s, with a rapidly diminishing asset (her youth, good looks) and you are not the first person she has fallen in love with. Sad truth is she would probably be more interested in the SNL with someone she barely knew, she is attaching significance to you and thus you probably need to build more comfort.

She isn't dead in the water, but you might want to loosen up the sexual overtones and keep the escalation friendly and fun.

Answering that text, perhaps ignore it. OR if you do want to aknowledge I would answer it with something like this, (knowing I've been chatting to her and built a connection over time). I like you and I enjoy your company. I don't want to make you any false promises but I want to see where we can take this. No, it isn't just about sex.

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The "What should I text next?" thread (for when you get stuck) - Manwhore - 04-03-2015

Quote: (04-02-2015 10:59 PM)Carlos100 Wrote:  

My date from yesterday, described here texted me this morning, asking, "UR looking for a fuck buddy aren't you?"

I'm not sure how to respond, except perhaps to ignore it and wait to see if she texts again and proceed onward as if she never asked it.

Yes ignoring it could work out just fine, and is probably the "safe" solution most guys should take. The only issue is that easily over half the time it's STILL going to be an issue, she's going to bring it up again and it'll possibly throw you off your game in a more sensitive spot with her. Or you could deal with it now with some nice dismissive flippancy and give yourself a one-up.

Remember.. it's all about changing her mood, not her mind. Don't be logical, be illogical.

"I'm looking for my keys gonna rob a bank. Are you gonna be my getaway driver or what"

Crisis averted- tension and emotions projected in another direction. You can do stuff like this all the way to penetration

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The "What should I text next?" thread (for when you get stuck) - Eddie Winslow - 04-03-2015

Quick summary: Met her while she was bartending, took her out a few days later, first date bang. I banged her at her house another 2-3 times before she came to visit me for the first time (40+ minutes away) 3 weeks ago. I took her out on a painfully long date on a Sunday afternoon, dropped at least $150 on food and drinks throughout the day while she barely pitched in. I felt very beta and lame afterwards. She slept over that night and we made plans to hang out the following weekend. Hottest girl I've ever fucked or damn close.

I didn't hear much from her at all the following week. I ended up flaking on the formal date and suggested a more casual "hang out" date because I didn't want to waste a ton of money and my whole day again. She has upped the coldness ever since, contrary to her very affectionate self.

One week after my initial flake:

Me: Hi there
Her: (no response)

One week later..

Me: havent heard from you in a while - are you working again all weekend? (2:29PM)
Her: Hey I am. How are u? (2:37pm)
Me: I'm good busy and stressed out - you know how it is (2:39PM)
Me: I'll be in (her town) this weekend for sure. hope to see ya (2:40PM)
Her: I'm working tonight and tomorrow but heading south for Easter! (3:22PM)

I know it's not looking good. I felt like such a faggot after buying her drinks all day on our daytime date - I'm pretty sure she lost respect for me after that, even though up to that point she had been very enthusiastic and eagerly fucked me on 4-5 different occasions. It's really unfortunate that girls do this shit, but I digress.

It's been about 40 minutes since her last text. Any suggestions?

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The "What should I text next?" thread (for when you get stuck) - AneroidOcean - 04-03-2015

Quote: (04-03-2015 03:01 PM)Eddie Winslow Wrote:  

Quick summary: Met her while she was bartending, took her out a few days later, first date bang. I banged her at her house another 2-3 times before she came to visit me for the first time (40+ minutes away) 3 weeks ago. I took her out on a painfully long date on a Sunday afternoon, dropped at least $150 on food and drinks throughout the day while she barely pitched in. I felt very beta and lame afterwards. She slept over that night and we made plans to hang out the following weekend. Hottest girl I've ever fucked or damn close.

I didn't hear much from her at all the following week. I ended up flaking on the formal date and suggested a more casual "hang out" date because I didn't want to waste a ton of money and my whole day again. She has upped the coldness ever since, contrary to her very affectionate self.

One week after my initial flake:

Me: Hi there
Her: (no response)

One week later..

Me: havent heard from you in a while - are you working again all weekend? (2:29PM)
Her: Hey I am. How are u? (2:37pm)
Me: I'm good busy and stressed out - you know how it is (2:39PM)
Me: I'll be in (her town) this weekend for sure. hope to see ya (2:40PM)
Her: I'm working tonight and tomorrow but heading south for Easter! (3:22PM)

I know it's not looking good. I felt like such a faggot after buying her drinks all day on our daytime date - I'm pretty sure she lost respect for me after that, even though up to that point she had been very enthusiastic and eagerly fucked me on 4-5 different occasions. It's really unfortunate that girls do this shit, but I digress.

It's been about 40 minutes since her last text. Any suggestions?

Your texts are far too long and caring. Also, saying "for sure" followed by "hope to see ya" is cringe-worthy. Avoid that in the future.

This is most certainly done for but I'd do one of the following:

Text her tonight, "I'm busy tonight but you can come by for a drink after"

or

Text her tomorrow morning late, "gay"

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The "What should I text next?" thread (for when you get stuck) - DarkTriad - 04-03-2015

Quote: (04-02-2015 10:59 PM)Carlos100 Wrote:  

My date from yesterday, described here texted me this morning, asking, "UR looking for a fuck buddy aren't you?"

I'm not sure how to respond, except perhaps to ignore it and wait to see if she texts again and proceed onward as if she never asked it.

I would turn it around.

"i haven't even decided if you're going to get that far. you're going to have to impress me"

Or words to that effect

sic intentional

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The "What should I text next?" thread (for when you get stuck) - -g- - 04-04-2015

This chick flaked on me like 2 weeks ago and continues to text me. She hits me up at 4am saying hi, and yesterday at 8pm but didn't wanna come out.


So I decided to fuck with her and I sent her "I have a question for you". She is dying to know what I'm gonna ask her. she just texted "ask that question or I'm not talking to you!"

Help me think of a good response, question or should I just ignore the shit out of her.

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The "What should I text next?" thread (for when you get stuck) - fitzad - 04-04-2015

So picked up a chick at club last night and convinced her and her friend to come back to mine. Ended up play strip poker with both of them, got them both almost naked then I had to go to bathroom. Came back and they had put their clothes on and said they had to leave (never going to bathroom again).

Couldn't convince them to stay and I was also quite trashed by this stage so my memory is a little fuzzy around the time they were leaving.

Any way, texted them today to come to Brunch but didn't get a response. She's just here on a holiday to see the area before she moves here in a couple of months and I need to close this!

I'm stuck on whether I should sent a txt in a fews days along the lines of 'shit got fairly crazy and I hope we're cool' or just proceed with normal chit chat?

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The "What should I text next?" thread (for when you get stuck) - The_Wonder - 04-06-2015

As mentioned before, brand new to game. Just matched with bird on Tinder and she messaged first (probably the fittest one to message first so far so naturally don't want to fuck it up before it begins). She messaged a simple "hey x". Suggestions fellas?

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The "What should I text next?" thread (for when you get stuck) - -g- - 04-06-2015

Doesn't sound good.. She's only there for a few days so she probably has plans. You sent a message and wait it out. If she doesn't respond, who gives a shit... Find something closer to were you live.

Text her next week and say something like... Had a nice time with you, when are you coming back around?

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The "What should I text next?" thread (for when you get stuck) - Stun - 04-07-2015

No idea where to go from here:



















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The "What should I text next?" thread (for when you get stuck) - game_ethic - 04-07-2015

Quote: (04-07-2015 08:16 PM)Stun Wrote:  

No idea where to go from here:



















edit: or why my images aren't appearing

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http://imgur.com/T6eiZ3O

http://imgur.com/hsCK495

http://imgur.com/rNTx29j

http://imgur.com/QZBrUCW

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http://imgur.com/IDk0a8Q

http://imgur.com/WYMQmD7

http://imgur.com/tZcdIQ0

http://imgur.com/0SDQvMq

She's starting to give one word responses so you best close quickly before she loses interest completely. Suggest a meet up. "Let's grab some coffee (could be drinks, whatever) later this week" Something along those lines.

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The "What should I text next?" thread (for when you get stuck) - h3ltrsk3ltr - 04-07-2015

^Trial close a meetup?
I'll be at *location* purchasing unicorn repellant. Come help me pick it out?

Honestly the jokes seem a little drawn out but she seems to dig that. Might want to transition into logistics now that you've established you're funny.

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