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How to get laid on okcupid like a boss - XPQ22 - 01-22-2017

Quote: (01-22-2017 03:01 PM)griffinmill Wrote:

Great to see you back in the thread. Like you, I've not dabbled in online in a while as I've been slouching toward monogamy with the the one girl for a while now. I had my best years online in 2013 and 2014 and the burnout you speak of is very familiar. The ROI became poor and I just lost all patience for it. I was still getting laid, but not with the ease and frequency that had once made online so beneficial. I also couldn't deal with the ghosting after the make-outs and being blocked after the ONS near-misses.

I can't even remember all the chicks who I thought it was going really good, making out on the date and then for no good reason to my mind the ASD come screaming in, "I gotta be up for work tomorrow" and then there's no way on God's earth it's possible to get her out again.

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Online can still be a supplement though, and it's good to know it's always there.

There's this one really hot blonde girl who I've seen on the site who has been visiting my profile religiously every couple of months for the better part of a year. I send her an opener whenever I see her show up, and so far it's been silence.

The frustrating thing is that her location is the next goddamn town over. And the towns around here are fairly compact; I bet she lives literally three fuckin' miles from me.

This is the kind of frustration that burns ya out. [Image: dodgy.gif]

How to get laid on okcupid like a boss - Vincent Chase - 01-22-2017

Quote: (01-22-2017 03:09 PM)XPQ22 Wrote:

Quote: (01-22-2017 03:01 PM)griffinmill Wrote:

Great to see you back in the thread. Like you, I've not dabbled in online in a while as I've been slouching toward monogamy with the the one girl for a while now. I had my best years online in 2013 and 2014 and the burnout you speak of is very familiar. The ROI became poor and I just lost all patience for it. I was still getting laid, but not with the ease and frequency that had once made online so beneficial. I also couldn't deal with the ghosting after the make-outs and being blocked after the ONS near-misses.

I can't even remember all the chicks who I thought it was going really good, making out on the date and then for no good reason to my mind the ASD come screaming in, "I gotta be up for work tomorrow" and then there's no way on God's earth it's possible to get her out again.

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Online can still be a supplement though, and it's good to know it's always there.

There's this one really hot blonde girl who I've seen on the site who has been visiting my profile religiously every couple of months for the better part of a year. I send her an opener whenever I see her show up, and so far it's been silence.

The frustrating thing is that her location is the next goddamn town over. And the towns around here are fairly compact; I bet she lives literally three fuckin' miles from me.

This is the kind of frustration that burns ya out.

Burn out is easy in this fucking game. I'm recovering from a russian from last night. I hear "I need to wake up early" a lot of fucking times, I now say it myself as one of the first things I say it flips the script such that they are chasing me. At best they will say it as well after (unusual) but even then it just means that me and her are both in the same boat. I also always tell them I'm off on holiday in a few days as well. It is their one and only chance. That is the only way I've really handled girls like that with the mindset of "sure I like to see him again" before heading home with barely a kiss then get texted by 10 other guys and forgetting who you are by the morning. They have next to no attention span, you have to make the most of it while they're there. The frame to go for with most girls is that the world ends at midnight. Some of my best bangs are of me actually flying out in the morning so I try to imitate that.

How to get laid on okcupid like a boss - Mess O. - 01-22-2017

It really is great to see some of you guys back over here, as I'm trying to get back into the swing of things better than ever, so I can sure benefit from the input.

How to get laid on okcupid like a boss - Vill@in - 01-23-2017

Quote: (01-22-2017 04:15 PM)Vincent Chase Wrote:

That is the only way I've really handled girls like that with the mindset of "sure I like to see him again" before heading home with barely a kiss then get texted by 10 other guys and forgetting who you are by the morning. They have next to no attention span, you have to make the most of it while they're there. The frame to go for with most girls is that the world ends at midnight. Some of my best bangs are of me actually flying out in the morning so I try to imitate that.

Goddamn, this is SO true. I can't stress this enough...strike while the iron is hot. As soon as you get an opportunity to meet with a girl, do it. It's really a race against the clock because she'll continue to be hammered with messages when you two are talking. I had a good connection with a girl last week, we talked over the phone and now I haven't talked to her in a few days due to being busy. No texts or anything from her...so I am already considering her a lost cause. I can't speak for her, but I felt we had a good connection for the few days we talked. But I didn't strike immediately and meet up...that's really your best opportunity to stand out in her mind.

The girls on these sites are just getting swarmed daily...they get overwhelmed and just ride that wave of instant excitement. Just don't take it personally and have a bit of abundance mentality yourself.

How to get laid on okcupid like a boss - churros - 01-23-2017

Is paying for premium worth it?

How to get laid on okcupid like a boss - XPQ22 - 01-23-2017

Quote: (01-23-2017 05:06 PM)churros Wrote:

Is paying for premium worth it?

I had it for half the time I was a regular user, and half not.

I didn't notice much of a difference.

Most of the features it offers don't seem particularly valuable. "Read receipts" aren't very helpful - the only thing that matters is if she's talking to you, or not. If she's not then who really cares if she's read your text or what the reason is. You can see who "likes" you, but in my experience "likes" are fairly worthless. Girls who "visit" your profile is a much better IOI. More often than not a girl who "likes" you is just a casual flipper and not going to reply anyway.

I'm trying to remember the other things you get. "Incognito" mode? Might be useful for a guy trying to pull on the DL from a wife or girlfriend but probably not terribly useful to most guys here. Change your user name at will? Eh.

About the only feature I remember that you get that might be worth paying for is more advanced filter options, like sorting by body type, height, and attractiveness. And the attractiveness filter sometimes has weird ideas about things.

If you're going to pay I'd probably just put the money into "Boosts", which usually at least provide immediate results in the form of more girls checking out your profile.

How to get laid on okcupid like a boss - churros - 01-23-2017

Cool, thanks for the info.

One more recent feature stuck out to me: your messages rise to the top. Sounds like it might be effective.

How to get laid on okcupid like a boss - Naughty By Nature - 01-24-2017

Do you dudes exaggerate your height and, if so, by how much?

How to get laid on okcupid like a boss - torridon747 - 01-24-2017

I always do by 1 inch because I'd rather not be another guy claiming 6'0"

Though I'm sure you could get away with way more. Women can't eyeball measurements for shit. It's actually a well documented phenomena.

I've had girls guess my height and I've got from 5'7" to 6'4". I don't know if it means anything but I always suspect women thay guess higher respect me more and less respect me less.

Remember women don't use a scientific method they guess based on how they feel. For fucks sake you could have a 4 inch dick and tell a girl that it's 7 and I guarantee most of them wouldn't correct you. So a few extra inches on your height won't mean anything