Quote: (01-11-2015 04:42 PM)MrXY Wrote:
Periodically, I end up with a raft of leads in my phone that aren't going anywhere. They may be old, cold leads, or more recent ones in which the girl is barely responsive or not at all. A few times a year I either just delete them all, or send a single restart text and delete if they don't answer within a few days.
Has anyone tried just texting DTF? to a girl to see what would happen? I would like to hear any stories, positive or negative. It's basically trolling her, of course, but I wonder if it has ever turned up a bang for anyone, or at least some laughs.
I have occasionally (well not saying"DTF") but something along those lines, and it works but very rarely, and you have the chance of throwing the baby out with the bathwater by doing that.
Best thing you can do is offer her to hang out with your place to watch some movies or whatever.
"hey xxxxx I just rented out some movies from the last blockbuster still open on Earth, stop by my place a 7pm tomorrow and we'll watch some."
Get some wine, get close to her,escalate when she gets comfortable, bang.
IMO I think you should never just text "dtf" or the like to your cold list. that will just get you blocked.
ALSO. . .GET YOURSELF A FACEBOOK PAGE!
Preferably one that your friends/family/work aren't on. Basically what you can do, is add the girls to your facebook page. Usually I'd do this only if:
A)I got the bang
B) I had a couple of dates and she wasn't down to clown with my big brown.
C)as a "first ping" to old girls that never went anywhere.
You could make a message like this: "Hey xxxxx, I Just got a new facebook page and I'm adding back all of my friends again so feel free to send me a friend request again (link your fb page).
Of course on this page is just all the girls you've banged or haven't banged + the pics of you with hot girls only. and you've got yourself superior pre-selection.
Facebook has its uses, despite everyone shitting on it all the time.
If you REALLY want to be savvy, after your FB page gets filled with friends, add them to your snap chat, twitter, social whatever app as well.
This is a MUST if you're a promoter and it works well, for game and money.
Edit: DO NOT, I repeat DO NOT, message these girls once they go on your facebook page (you can ping them with the first message on your PHONE after about 3-5 months,) OR you could go the Distant Light and/or club promoter route and invite them + one or two of your guy friends (or rather guys that you know that are extremely well connected) who are chill and won't fuck anything up to a club or even or whatever and basically let the girls fight over you lol. Of course you'll be taking pictures and putting them up on fb snap twitter etc.