Simple enough question:

At what point would you consider someone a pervert?
What does a guy do that gives off that pervert vibe?
What are the qualities of a normal guy verses a perv these days?

Has a large porn collection?
Masturbates in public?
Hangs out too often in strip clubs?
Frequents hookers and massage joints?
Constantly talking about sex?
Into S&M and BDSM.
...etc.

Quote: (09-20-2013 12:52 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

Masturbates in public?

Into S&M and BDSM.

First for me is 100% perv.

Second if someone is doing in her house - it's pk for me.

Every guy is a perv with his own fetishes. Some guys try to hide it or are to embarassed to try shit.

Probably people who are turned on by animals or children, basically any of the illegal things.

Agree with Houston. We're all nothing but a bunch of little perverts.

I have a buddy who's an unstoppable whoremonger, and prefers the bottom of the barrel. I consider him a pervert, but I don't hold it against him.

I love the comments so far. But you don't hold it against them?
Do you think it reflects badly on you to be friends with someone
considered to be a pervert?

Guys who like fatties are pervs IMO.

As long as you're not imposing your desires on others, it's impossible to be a pervert.

It's funny how people make sex seem so dirty.

You know what is dirty? Taking a shit. The stench and sometimes the pain of getting out a turd.

Smearing fecal matter all over the place with paper.

Getting e coli and other bacteria all over your bathroom when you turn on the faucet to wash your hands.

Walking around in your bare feet all over bacteria-covered floors. Then walking through the kitchen. Then putting those plague-ridden feet on the couch.

Watching porn (as long as kids or animals aren't being hurt to produce it) is one of the cleanest activities we human animals engage in.

Cougars are perverts. Fat bitches that parade around like they are hot are perverted to me.

Any man or woman who likes to get shit on, pissed on or vomited on.

Overall, whatever dudes do is fine with me - I don't care enough as long as they leave out kids and animals.

MikCF, I think there's a typo in that last sentence of yours.

EDIT: Fixed

It depends on the motive behind the behavior...

Are you into jerking it in public because you're horny all the time or is it because you like the reaction you get from people watching you?

There is a fine line between what we call a pervert and what is a sexual deviant.

Touching girls on public transit? sexual deviant
Approaching girls and getting a number to bang them at a later date. some would consider you a perv.

Smelling women's panties is arguably pervy, but the method on how you came about them could be considered sexually deviant.

Quote: (09-20-2013 02:23 PM)Acute Angle Wrote:  

MikCF, I think there's a typo in that last sentence of yours.

I noticed that too. He's got about 30 minutes left to fix that...

Edit - the man is quick, fixed.

It is hard for me to consider someone a perv anymore.

It seems like an empty word.

After traveling a lot and rubbing shoulders with varied personalities here -hearing the stories, very little surprises me or disgusts me.

I view the word pervert the same as creep - a word made up by women to shame men they don't approve of for the sexual desires those men express. Any preference a man has can be called perverted if she doesn't it like it.

It's just that nowadays girls call guys creepy instead of perverted.

Quote: (09-20-2013 02:54 PM)Walderschmidt Wrote:  

It is hard for me to consider someone a perv anymore.

It seems like an empty word.

After traveling a lot and rubbing shoulders with varied personalities here -hearing the stories, very little surprises me or disgusts me.

I view the word pervert the same as creep - a word made up by women to shame men they don't approve of for the sexual desires those men express. Any preference a man has can be called perverted if she doesn't it like it.

It's just that nowadays girls call guys creepy instead of perverted.

Exactly. Pervert or perv is a sexual shaming word that is directed almost entirely at men. When was the last time you heard a woman referred to as a pervert? When I was in college ~20 years ago 'perv' was used the way 'creeper' is now (although I don't recall hearing it as often).

"Chastity is the greatest form of perversion"

-- Oscar Wilde

Quote: (09-20-2013 02:54 PM)Walderschmidt Wrote:  

I view the word pervert the same as creep - a word made up by women to shame men they don't approve of for the sexual desires those men express. Any preference a man has can be called perverted if she doesn't it like it.

From my experience, women will excuse any perversion if the man is charismatic enough.

Quote: (09-20-2013 03:58 PM)AnonymousBosch Wrote:  

Quote: (09-20-2013 02:54 PM)Walderschmidt Wrote:  

I view the word pervert the same as creep - a word made up by women to shame men they don't approve of for the sexual desires those men express. Any preference a man has can be called perverted if she doesn't it like it.

From my experience, women will excuse any perversion if the man is charismatic enough.

I Agree. That's my approach. You can get away with saying anything if you say it the right way.

Quote: (09-20-2013 03:58 PM)AnonymousBosch Wrote:  

Quote: (09-20-2013 02:54 PM)Walderschmidt Wrote:  

I view the word pervert the same as creep - a word made up by women to shame men they don't approve of for the sexual desires those men express. Any preference a man has can be called perverted if she doesn't it like it.

From my experience, women will excuse any perversion if the man is charismatic enough.

That is the truth.

What's perverted for you is always WAY more perverse than what you think is perverted in other people.

The fornicators, the masturbators and the sexual deviants.

All perverts.

Perverts are creepy.