Is my girlfriend awesome or what?

So since my girlfriend is cool with threesome all we need to do is find a partner. Does anyone have experience approaching women to ask if they'd want to do a couple?

Two ways of going about it

1. Go and pick up a chick yourself, ask if she is bi or bi curious during the pick up
2. Go tandem hunting with your gf

try lesbian/gay bars and strip clubs

Quote: (08-22-2010 12:02 AM)klasik Wrote:  

Is my girlfriend awesome or what?

So since my girlfriend is cool with threesome all we need to do is find a partner. Does anyone have experience approaching women to ask if they'd want to do a couple?

I would strongly recommend you let HER pick out the woman. My (now ex) girl was open to it too, and even suggested it to spice things up...after the fact, it was an incredibly life-draining roller coaster of jealous rage, and you do not want to be on the receiving end of it.

One thing that was making her explode in rage is thinking about how this girl had me pinned down against the bed in a choke-hold and almost breaking the bed fucking me...yelling "your girls is sooo lucky, your girl is soo lucky...omg she's so lucky....but I'm gonna fuck you hard" all while she looked at my girl dead in her eyes - like an eagle does its prey, and pounded me to the point of having me scream like I was getting raped...

My girl even had nightmares about it weeks later....it ended our relationship eventually, and she was the one that wanted it!!! She kept telling me..."you liked it you asshole, you like it...and kept trying to copy her!!!!

next time, let her pick the girl...and be prepared for it to be the last sexual escapade you have with her...girls are fucking weird that way.


Mixx

Haha MM been thinking in those lines, also think it will fuck things up unless your cold as ice. But that scene seems like a cartoon, I will have to say I can understand why that mindfucked her

I would say if your happy about your relationship, spice it up somehow else, the IM SO LUCKY!! can quickly be Im so single, which is cool, but unless your willing to end the relationship over it, spice it up somehow else. Go out and let your girlfriend attract some horny drunk male attraction and swoop her.. that should make you able to enjoy fucking her again...

Let your girl pick out the girl, it saves A LOT of DRAMA. Or maybe suggest having another girl just WATCH or TELL you both what to do, which is still hella fun and you can gauge if your girl will freak if it goes further.

I bet your GF wants it to be a dude Klassik.

So I've found a potential partner. We met in class and she gave some pretty heavy signals (asked me to sit next to her, gave me her number without me asking). So I invited her over to a party at my girlfriend's house this weekend. My plan is to let her get to know us, then invite her over again next week. Still a little nervous about broaching the subject, though I suspect she will go down for it because

1) She's demonstrated interest in me (IOI's above)
2) She's open minded (buys into the LGBT rights, sex-positivism politics.
3) Thinks it's cool that I'm dating a MILF (see other post).

big big BIG thing, I have had bunches, other guys on the board too, so ignore my advice if you are experienced in this but....

the mistake girls have told me guys make is to ignore their girl because they are so happy about a new piece of ass. She ends up feeling neglected. I like to have a girl (if its not something I just "make" happen spontaneously) tell me what her fantasy is about having a 3some, then you can steer the interaction and give her her fantasy and its a great experience for everyone.

Ex. After letting my girl talk me into having a threesome with her while fucking her I told her to tell me about her fantasy, she wanted to smoke a cigarette while watching me fuck another girl(something from a sharon stone movie I think). So I had the other girl and I get off my girl first then fucked the new girl.

I always frame it as something that I can take or leave, but can spice things up, AND something I am doing for her. Girls are worried about fear of loss and rejection if they think you like the other girl more.

Just my experiences. Oh and alcohol always helps smooth things along

It didn't work.

The new girl wanted to have sex with me, and me only. She said she still hadn't recovered from her last girlfriend (who was apparently really abusive). She recommended I ask for an open relationship but I don't really feel inclined.

so bring her along and see what happens

Quote: (08-22-2010 12:02 AM)klasik Wrote:  

Is my girlfriend awesome or what?

So since my girlfriend is cool with threesome all we need to do is find a partner. Does anyone have experience approaching women to ask if they'd want to do a couple?

It all seems to being going your way. So go mongering with her but be sure she picks out the Girl. That way she can`t say anything negative about the evening. Eidoos77.

clr: that is sound advice...its always best to make it into her idea and make her very comfortable about it.

Quote: (09-12-2010 02:40 PM)klasik Wrote:  

It didn't work.

The new girl wanted to have sex with me, and me only. She said she still hadn't recovered from her last girlfriend (who was apparently really abusive). She recommended I ask for an open relationship but I don't really feel inclined.

I wonder if the Lifetime network will take the initiative to start programming television shows that focus on the plight of the modern woman (who get abused by their lesbian girlfriends).